Have you pass a day when you got so angry at someone in any
possible way? It can be something that we can just smile and laugh at but
instead it turn to be an anger. Maybe as little as someone crossing the road
while you were driving and you who rush to nowhere was actually annoyed by this
person that walked awfully slow in front of you. Means what? A minute of your
time equals to thousand bucks? What about his time or her time? Doesn’t cost
anything at all? Or their hobbies are purely wasting time? I don’t know about
that but I have seen a lot of these unpleasant scenes. Some even wine down and
yelled!! Ooopss! Adding it with some
nasty face, hand or fingers actions and bad words. What is it for is unclear,
whether just for self-satisfaction in putting someone else down or just
frustration or maybe it seems like a joke to mock on other people. If we encode
that simple scenario, for me I guess it will come to few reasons. Have our
lives change to a fast lane only without the needs of courtesy because it’s too
fast that courtesy slowing us down by a few minutes…
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Some people are up there above us by their birth right, some
people making it themselves through hard works and sweats and some people
trying to be there because they wanted to. For whatever reason, it is important
to know what is our life priority.
When you don’t see tears on a person eyes, it doesn’t mean
that they are not hurting. We, human beings are the best in disguising our
feelings. Asked yourself, have you been laughing hysterically when you are
angry? Have you been smiling all day when you are sad? And have you been annoyed
when you’re really excited? Yes, I did sometimes. I am no saint but I think our
life will be better if we try to be more honest to ourselves. If we are
unhappy, try hard to find the core of the problem. When you did eventually
found the cause, try your best to make a change if you can. I mean really try to
do something about it not by saying I have tried but it doesn’t work out well.
I can’t deny there are things which happened that we can never change anymore.
The last time I checked there is no existing time machine for us to go back and
change our past mistakes. Do also know that we are human; we are susceptible to
make and live with mistakes here and there but never take that as a good excuse
for ill manners or behavioural disorder. I believe when we are happy, our life
will be blooming beautifully. If you really think you need helps, reach out for
it.
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| Everyone has the right to be angry but it is not such a pretty face aint it? |
Another scenario is when you’re happy; it doesn’t mean
everyone else is happy. You might be jumping head over heels upon hearing the
best news you have been long waiting for. Maybe accepted to your dreams University,
career promotions or the girl or guy you really have crush for finally say yes
for a date with you. Familiarized ourselves with the reality of life and this
will helps us achieve a greater life. When you’re sharing your joy with someone
else and this person doesn’t seems to care much or seems not paying enough
attention; don’t quickly judge them. Perhaps asked if something or someone is
bothering them. Remember at some point, sharing is really caring. It is also
undeniable to me that some people are as hard as a rock when comes to sharing
their problem. In our society today, it seems hard to find a real person that
we can find trust and comfort in. Sharing our disappointment and problem with some
wrong ears will cause more turmoil than we could ever imagine. With social
media and gossip lovers everywhere, two ears that listened to your problems can
spread it to hundreds of ears and eyes within a short few days. Come on people,
can we be more kind towards other. Just simply put yourself in their shoes,
that’s all.
We are all educated at schools and probably everyone watched
National Geographic at some points. We know the truth about food chain in the wild
woods or deep oceans. Those are the nature as its existence since thousands or
millions years ago, the strong lives on and the weak oppressed. Little that we
know, we almost all turn that way. Everyone in every direction is searching and
finding way to reach the top so that we can feel the power to press some other
people lower. I say it again that life improvement is forever good news, that’s
how the world keep seeing new and great inventions that make our life easier
but the unknown processes during the making of history can take a toll at
making some people lives miserable. Just keep this in mind, nothing last
forever on this earth. What comes to live will eventually go back to the Mighty
creator. That is our life chain. So while we are living on this earth, count it
a blessing that we can still open our eyes and breathe airs to our lungs. Another
day of life let us make it another meaningful day to count. Start counting your
good deeds; it is never too late to start. Everyday will be a good day if you
can just donate a smile to people. It is definitely not too heavy to moves your
lips. The little nice gestures we make towards someone can be the best thing
they have for the day. Let’s be kind and make this life better.
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