House is Never a Home Without a Mother....

They say “a house is never a home without a mother”. I really agree with this but I would like to add something in it, without ‘a real mother’. Isn’t that true? Heard it before but I overlooked it until today when someone shared it somewhere. In our cutting edge, digital and modern society now, anything is possible in a house. I’m not overthrown the fact that fathers can do marvellous job in fulfilling the duties as a parent but there will always be something missing somewhere in the heart of children who grown up without the love and care from that special someone, a mother.

Ask a full time mother and she will tell you what it’s like to be a real mother. I’ve asked one and this is how she described it:

“I might be naïve and outcast from the digital and career world out there but nevertheless I’m on 24 hours stand-by duty every single day of my life for the past 17 years without fail. If you ever underestimate the true duties of a mother, you must have not been there yet. May be I’m just a mother to many of you but I operate as the chef of the house, the referee to stop the children fight, the educator to teach them manners and homeworks, the driver to drive them around, the butler to keep the house in perfect order, the nurse to nurse them if there’s minor injuries, and so much more. Sometimes I can even be a pharmacist because I know exactly which medication the children needs. Let me also tell you this, I don’t have any leave to apply from and sometimes I feel like I can only have a break when I eventually breakdown.”

Read the phrase Monica mentioned above, what do you feel? Have you been under estimating your mother or wife duties? Without a mother, a home will never be as warm and inviting. Fathers are great individuals too but they hardly act as gentle and soft as mothers. I know this because I experienced it but I don’t blame it on my dad. I realized most dads are out there working everyday trying their best to provide more for the home. When they’re back from work in the end of the day, all they need is peace and tranquil! However, a home with children, I don’t really know how we can shut them sometimes. Oh! There’s no offence here, I just said it from my mind, if only there’s a multi-purpose remote control which can be used to mute them for just 10 minutes when you needed to, that will help.

Another thing that I know is, when you’re hurts, you can talk to your father and he will console you but if you go to mommy, she will hold you tight and shed her tears with you. Parents can never let anyone to hurts you but believe it or not a mother can go to a great length of extend to protect their children. So cherish your mom and don't even think that it is their responsibilities and take it for granted. Some mothers may choose to leave but most mothers choose to stay and hold on eventhough they know for sure it can never be easy. Big applauds to all the real mothers out there, without you the house can never turn to home. Also remember that charity always start from home. Moms, we all know that you plays a big role in shaping the future of the world.

He who Carves His Own Success....

Each and every time we saw report on telly or newspapers about someone, we certainly know that person must be somebody in order for the media to carry their stories. Of course crime news is reported everyday on TV and papers and that involved someone too but let us stream to a success story.

I’ll say ‘Don’t simply judge a food by its presentation’... Some foods look nice but ain’t taste that nice. In this kind of scenario, the presentation of the food is the disguise to allure your taste buds. However, going all around and stepping back to the point that first impression does really matters!! Don't ignore the fact at times, there are precious gems underneath unpolished rock so don't cast it before you get to know it. That’s how I see this person when I first met him. (Sorry for sharing about you here. I thought your story is inspiring.)

At first glance, he might look just like a guy you will see somewhere but it doesn’t take long for us to change this perception. Once he start talking, it proves he’s not that ordinary. Speaks with full confident plus good in handling constant eyes contact. Sounds easy to you? Trust me; it takes a great confident to be able to do this. I’ve seen and met lot of people through my work and leisure, I notice many can’t handle the issues of speak with confident and managing good eye contact.

Always clean shaven with clear eyes and soft spoken. That’s how you can easily describe him as pleasant looking. Charming from the first meeting, there he is so let us know a little more about this person who strive it out himself for whatever he has today. What I really see in him is his determination, discipline, life principle, trustworthy, down to earth personality and super level of hardworking that complies to make him who he is today.  

Possessing a great leadership value and not to forget that he’s kind of a smart guy, a gifted one. I’m not so sure about this fact but he might play chess. Chess player are well known for their strategic planning, he’s obviously good at it. (Do you know that Jamaican athletes are encouraged to play chess for their development? This helps them to arrange their strategy while competing.)

When someone is successful, that is the peak time we know about them. We see them, hear their stories and those stories often comes along with RUMOURS too! Then we might be inspired, admiring them but some free talkers will start to judge and only interested in rumours. Rumours can be entertaining if you take it lightly. That's what going on with tabloid magazines as they focus on rumours for hike in sales but rumours always prone to the bad side and can be harmful. Think again, how far you know the truth behind those rumours. I always take rumours as a waste of time. Don't you feel the same?

Those who are in the rumours topic will certainly know the real truth and know exactly how to just shut their ears. They have tough skin ok. That’s why they’re up there somewhere above the line of ordinary. We may not know what they have been through before they reach their position today. Most of them faced failures not once or twice but several times in the making. However, they don’t give up, instead they learn from it and develop. Humiliations, challenges and obstacles will always come our way, which will directly serve to make our skin thicker to face new turbulence in life.

Maybe he used to be just the other boy when he grew up but today he is standing tall as Dato’ Seri Charles Voon. Below is the link of his stories which was published in Borneo Post on June 20^th, 2012 titled “From Swimming Coach to CEO”. Proud and happy, he made it on his own. He carved his own success and never forget where he came from. Thanks for sharing some of your wisdoms with me.

Please click on this link to read more about him     http://www.theborneopost.com/2012/06/20/from-swimming-coach-to-ceo/

Haenyeo, the Mermaids of Jeju Island...

Have you heard about the story of mermaids living on beautiful Jeju Island? It is off the coast of Korea.. The mermaids living on Jeju Island are actually Haenyeo, or Korean female divers. Unlike fishermen who go out in boats or use a rod or line, these women dive in the ocean without any special tools to gather clams, abalone, or seaweed. They don’t go as fully equipped as scuba divers. All they need is a float to mark their location when they surface, a weeding hoe to dig up abalone and other shellfish that cling to the rocks, and a net to hold their catch. Most amazing, they actually dive without oxygen tank!!! I guess they possess super human strength because they still dive during winter and before giving birth. Wow…

Haenyeo, ready to work.

Wearing a lead-weighted vest and goggles, they plunge into the 20-meter depths where they stay underwater holding their breath for two or three minutes. They are so adapted to life beneath the sea, they actually could be mermaids don’t you think so. Once they come back to the surface, they will make a whistling sound, which is their unique way of breathing out the Carbon Dioxide and breathing in fresh Oxygen.

Notice that she don't even need an Oxygen tank to help her breathing while diving

Traditionally, Koreans have aspired to have baby boys, because only a man was considered to be the head of a family, but there in Jeju, it is different as the birth of a baby girl was so valued that the local saying goes: “Have a baby girl, and we will throw a pork barbecue party; have a baby boy, and we will kick his ass.” Since it was the women who worked from morning till night every day, women held a special place in Jeju’s society.  I wonder why is it different in this part of the world. Do you know that these women, the Haenyeo would dive six to seven hours a day and they still do farming chores?? Big salute to them.

In the past, island girls began gathering clams or abalone by the time they were ten years old. The common routine was to do farm work, go diving, and then go back to do more farm work. Because of the gruelling daily life, female divers had a saying: “Better to be born a cow than a woman.” The life of a haenyeo was not necessarily unhappy, though.

That's the olden days Haenyeo. Gorgeous

Female divers usually worked in groups, and during breaks, they built a fire on the beach, dried their clothes, shared some food, and chatted. Diving was also a relatively good source of income. Jeju female divers enjoyed more freedom, independence, and self-respect than other women. They were not only skilled in gathering seafood, but also had great interest in various cultural and social issues. During the colonial period, they led the anti-Japanese campaign and also established cooperatives to preserve marine resources. They also worked to preserve the haenyeo culture. Haenyeos were awarded medals for their contribution during the anti-Japanese campaign, and saw the creation of a monument and a commemorative park in their honor, located in Hado-ri, Jeju-do.

With her catch

Today, haenyeos play the role of guardians of the sea and the ocean’s ecological environment. Their cooperatives operate seafood restaurants and shops, explaining why some restaurants are named Haenyeo Hoetji (Seafood restaurant specializing in raw fish) and Haenyeoui Jip (House of Haenyeo).
While it is not known when the first female divers appeared in Jeju, they are believed to predate the Common Era. Ancient shrines honoring fishermen and female divers indicate that they have been around since humans began gathering food from the sea. And divers have long been a part of Jeju Island. A study conducted during the 1960s of the physiology of female divers (sponsored by the U.S. State Department and conducted by American and Korean scholars) named Jeju Island as the birthplace of Korean female divers. Divers born on the island migrated to other regions after they married. When the number of divers reached the market limits, some moved in search of areas with more abundant shellfish.

Woman Diver in her 80's, still strong..

During the Japanese occupation, they even went as far as China, Russia, and Japan to make a living. Currently, however, the number of female divers has decreased sharply because of shark attacks and the heart risks caused by diving. In 2002, there were only 5,600 female divers, and more than half were 60 years or older. In ten years, the total number of divers will likely be only half of that number. Which mean now, in 2012 there might only be approximately 2800 Haenyeo. I hope these women divers continue to exist for more generations to come. Super strong lungs

Appreciation & Courtesy from Korea Tourism..

Color Me Beautifully...

How often do you find yourself standing right in front of your well-packed wardrobe, looking and concluded, “I just don’t have anything to wear but there are too many choices in here”? Trust me, you are not alone. It can be up to 80% of women wear only 20% of the clothes in their wardrobe. Yet we continue to spend our hard-earned money on clothes we do not wear because we are lack of knowledge to make the right purchases or pull out of our wardrobe what’s best for our look. Sometimes it is just because we saw that dress look so gorgeous on the mannequin that stands still. Oh! We are so tempted.

Wouldn’t you like to have a closet full of clothes you actually wear? Since the color you wear reflects onto your face, it can enhance your look or detract from it. In order to help you build an efficient wardrobe, I will use this knowledge of your season and color palette which is made for your season.

In a year season (though we don’t have four seasons here) there are winter, summer, spring and autumn. How are we divided will be count on our hair colors and a little help from our real eyes color. I would stress it as deep or light and cool or warm. If your hair are-

1)      Deep and cool, you’re definitely a Winter

2)      Light and cool, you’re definitely a Summer

3)      Deep and Warm, you’re definitely an Autumn and

4)      Light and Warm, you’re a Spring

For your little info, most vibrant cool colors flatter Winter women. You can also wear contrasting colors well. This is the only season of women who can wear pure white, which is often seen against a contrasting shade. Winters are dazzling in jewel tone color such as turquoise, royal blue, deep fuchsia and other. Want to know more? Contact me…

For Summer women, the keywords are soft and sexy. Summers are luminous in complex tones such as lavender, blue charcoal, soft fuchsia and others. Wrong colors can over-power the delicate Summer woman’s hair and complexion. Muted and hazy colors give Summer women a special glow.

The Autumn women looks radiant in Autumn tones with coloring rich enough to rival nature when she is at the pinnacle of her glory. Think of the colors of fallen leaves and branches during autumn. Olive, tan and bronze form an excellent foundation for your wardrobe.

Spring ladies! You have an entire range of clear and bright tones to show off your beauty. You looks great in shades including salmon, light orange, bright yellow and peach. You must avoid the wrong colors as it will contribute to a wan and unhealthy appearance.

Knowing and wearing your right colors will bring out the best of you. You will always appear flawless in any occasion and in the other hand will help you save some of those hard earn cash as you will never buy the wrong colors of outfit anymore. Color Me Younger and Color Me Slimmer rules are also available.

**** Principle of Color Me Beautiful. Contact me for more info.

Crying is NOT a Crime...

I always tell friends or people that I know; crying is not a crime... In any lifetime, it will never be a crime for someone to cry!! Sometimes even male friends who feel down will call on the phone and expressed it. It’s good to be able to comfort people but if you sense that they really need someone to talk to, take time to see them. Just a short time will be comforting enough. Do you know in various time it is just your presence that really matter and count. Nonetheless, if someone call you and tell you about their misery, you should understand that they trusted you with their problem. Don’t let yourself judge beforehand as we usually connect problems with financial matters. When that is in our mind, we will certainly avoid that person.

In most of our culture, most nation in this earth…. We always tell the children “Don’t cry!”… Especially to little boys, we will say “Be strong! You’re a boy, don’t cry” or we just simply put it this was as “Crying is for girls” Then, for little girls we might take it slightly easy but still sending the similar message. We told them to stop crying or in a little nasty way “Are you not ashamed if your friends or people see you cry?” In public, it can really cause us adult to feel embarrassed if our children cry. I bet we’ll do mostly anything just to stop them from crying.

However, as time goes, indirectly we cause the child to grow up not to show their real emotions because they’re afraid that people will laugh at them particularly, if they cry. Deep within our heart, we know that when we are sad, we will cry or at least we feel like crying but why are we holding back? That’s because we don’t want people to think that we are weak or soft because we’re not strong enough to face challenge or problems. Don’t you know that it is very hurtful to smile just to hold the tears from falling… Yes! It is very painful but all of us are still doing it.

Through some research I’ve made, some minor reason for bully cases are related directly to this scenario. Bullying happens everywhere. We highlight the cases at schools and work place but bully in general happens randomly everywhere. It can be on the road while driving, in the mall as we shop or on the phone as we talk.

Why bullies at school? We mark the kids who bullied other kids as ‘the bad kids’ at school. They’re always the ones that teachers will scold or punishes and they’re always the ones that parents will asked their kids to stay away from and never to befriend them. Some cases that been studied, it shows that the kids who bully other kids are unhappy or crushed inside. They’re sad but unable to show it and don’t know how to handle it. To make things easier, they pick on other peers to bully. They make the others to feel misery so they can laugh and feel better about themselves. This is really sickening and unhealthy trend.

I think it is good for us to let the children to express their feelings openly. As adult we have better understanding, knowledge and experience to handle most situations. Let them express it and we try our best to guide and console them. That’s why we say “we grow up to be a better person” and a good old phrase of “A year older, a year wiser.” All the say and phrase has its own deep meaning. Cry it out if you really need to but always do it in a better way.

The Book I Read Recently...

When we’re talking about sex slavery in today’s society, most of us still wondering if it really exists. Hello… It is existing!! It can be so near or just happening under our nose but we can’t really figure out. How or why does it happen? Fact check, is our society caring enough or does the people behind this things are too strong that they’re undefeated by us. Hmmm… How do they escape the jurisdiction of authority anyway??

Recently (2 weeks ago), one book displayed on the shelf of a book store captured my attention. It does not took me long to just grabbed it and turned to the back, catches the synopsis of the book. Without hesitation, I just bought it the next few minutes. It titled “The End of My World” by Emma Jackson. This book based on the real story of Emma few years back. I’ll share the synopsis with all of you later on. It can never cross our mind that a girl, an early teen age girl from a good and decent family would be involved in this sex trade, of course it is by force but again we think… She’s so young. At the age of thirteen and a quarter, how much would they know about the bigger image of prostitution or precisely organized crimes?

The picture of a rapist or pervert men in our head when we were younger would always be:

1)      A nasty, smelly, dirty and bad looking old men

2)      Someone who’s intoxicated with illegal substances and this person will be dirty and smelly as well and all other bad image we can think of.

But what Emma saw was a totally different image. She saw good looking men, clean, full of manners, polished, polite and wealthy. We as an adult would always have a longer thinking but girls or boys at that age wouldn’t have the same mind set as us. They will never see what we can imagine. It is really sad but awakening. Thanks to Emma Jackson for being brave to share her life experience with the world, with us. I wish you well.

The synopsis of ‘The End of My World’ and some part in the book that I want to share with all of you so please be careful. Life is not always as beautiful as we see.

“Emma was just 13 when her happy childhood become crashing down. She had no idea the young lads she and her friends met every Saturday in the shopping mall weren’t all they seemed.

The boys were part of an organised gang targeting innocent young girls, grooming them for prostitution. Captivated by the ring leader, Emma didn’t see the first brutal rape coming. From then on, her life was never her own…

This is the harrowing true story of how a nice girl from a good home found herself drawn into a trap of degradation and violence, frightened for her life and not knowing where to turn. But it is also the story of finding the courage and inner strength to risk everything and escape”

Emma also quoted this:

“I’d never have guessed that when your world’s tumbling down you can carry on as usual. But it wasn’t like I had a big sign on my back saying “I’ve been raped”. Nobody notice a thing.”

Secret Beneath Neumerology

I found new interest in the mysterious relation between human, other living things, the universe and things that occurs everyday. Sometimes all this can be just a pleasure reading but it can be something awakening when you just found elements that are so true. Let's explore a little about numerology and it's characteristic.

There are two ways, first is our birth number which we found it from adding on the numbers on our birth date. (Read on, I'll show you how) Secondly, it's in our name. When I say name, I mean your full gifted name as in your birth certificate, NOT as you name yourself, nick name or marital name.

Basic numerology opens the door for us to feel natural rhythms and seeing amazing story of our evolving lives. We can use our birth number as a day-to-day application of a basic, simple tool that is part of that special “universal place of energy and knowing”..

Finding your birth number is simply taking all the numbers of the date of your birth and adding them together. You then add those numbers together until you reach a number between 1-9 (Remember, it’s only 1 digit number).  Example: June 12, 1978 will be 6+1+2+1+9+7+8 = 34 (3+4) = 7 So your birth number is 7. Now try it using your own birthday in this form (mm/dd/yyyy)..

The fun part is then to apply this formula to dates to see which days resonate with your birth number, and to the physical addresses of prominent places in your life like your home and business. Special people in your life will often have the same birth, destiny or heart’s desire numbers as your birth number. You’ll be amazed at how you seem to find your way to your birth number in relationship with location and other people, since you will naturally express your inherent energy in these places and with these people.

In a more profound way, you begin to learn about the special talents and personal qualities that you had at birth, growing through your early home life. Your destiny and heart’s desire numbers are determined fundamentally by your name as it reads on your birth certificate. Life-period influences appear in your professional and marriage names. This basic numerology is the perfect introduction to the world of more advance numerology, Kabbalah, Tarot cards and astrology, as all are related to the foundation of number, space, time and the individual’s and collective’s spiritual paths.

Here is a brief summary of the life path established by your birth number:

#1 Birth: The Innocent Warrior for Good. You are born to fearlessly pursue what is “needed and wanted” by humanity. You have the amazing energy and enthusiasm of a child approaching each day as something new and exciting. You grow and become aware of your inner wisdom, bringing courage in approaching anything new.

#2 Birth: The Perfect Partner. You are born a diplomat who mirrors others to the point that they see themselves in you. You bring the beautiful awareness of the “other” making the two of you a new and powerful “one.” You see the completed circle of life through relating. Recognizing that partnerships require full communication, you naturally know that the complete expression of love doesn’t require a 50/50 effort. It requires 100% commitment on each person’s part.

#3 Birth: The Master Expression of Harmony. Your talent is functioning in accord with nature—meaning not only our gorgeous planet but the universal perfection of the rhythms of the stars and space. You grow by fulfilling the expression of this magical realm. You appear to have a life full of synchronicity—seemingly magical timing—but it is just your attunement to all life.

#4 Birth: The Great Architect on Earth. Your talent is in knowing how to build things on the physical level. Your hands-on approach to spirituality is quite effective. You give birth to what we call “reality.” You are born to be the source of the structure for all worldly things to happen financially, politically and socially.

#5 Birth: The Great Performer Teaching Others From the Stage. You have mastered the art of integrating information and talents into something brilliant that can dazzle the world. You attract people through your clarity of self-expression. They can see themselves in what you project.

#6 Birth: The Gift of Love and Service. You have mastered releasing your ego to the point that you take joy in supporting others in your role in life, and through this, you really shine. While you naturally serve others, accepting their gratitude in return takes experience. Let in how special your contributions are and true joy follows.

#7 Birth: The Brave One Looking Inside All of Us. With your willingness and courage to look within, you address all that we fear within ourselves. You see both sides of issues and seek something more. By way of these realizations, you lead others on their own paths.

#8 Birth: The Master Creating the New Pathway. You so effectively manage the leadership role of life that you create new leaders and forge new pathways and ideas. This lucky number to the Chinese masters the true power that we have as humans.

#9 Birth: The Complete and Integrated Teacher. You are so full of knowledge and talent that what is left for you in completing your path is to teach others what you have learned. With this you open yourself to infinite new wisdom.

Knowing these inherent talents that are your birth-right and that you develop in childhood shows you the very special tools with which you seek your purpose in life. This number relates to your natural energy expression. Use these gifts wisely and the world is yours! I hope you enjoy reading it.

The Four Elements of Zodiac

Most probably all of you know more about zodiac than me. I used to be amazed by it back in my teenage years. It struck me how sometimes it is so true. By reading the sign, it actually helps me to explore and understand more about myself. If anyone trying to figure out why things seem so out of your way or when you’re comparing yourself to someone else who appears so differently and you keep trying and trying but still seems not so right… Don’t give up; perhaps it’s a good time to start knowing yourself by your Zodiac.  Remember, it’s like an exploration on the Universe and for me it’s soothing and very interesting by using zodiac to know more about myself. When it comes down to it, you have free-will to act and live life the way you see it, and so does the people around you.

Why am I saying that? I start to know why emotion is my best friend. To many people, it can be truly annoying to be around someone who can change mood easily but for those who really know me, you’ll like me. Hahaha… I try to stay sane and rational as much as I can but having too much sympathy and care sometimes caused me loses. Should you want to take the simple quiz: I’m an emotional person, loves indoor, (whenever I’m back to my crib, it’s hard to convince me to get out again) lots of compassion and fall in the Water sign... What am I?

I’m not a Zodiac expert but from some readings and understanding, I can share this with you. No doubt, in love and relationship, Zodiac can guide you vastly in achieving the most out of it. It’s not that you should spent your whole life looking for someone with a compatible zodiac sign with you but zodiac teaches us how to make it work even with our opposite sign as it tell you more about the characteristic of your partner through their sign. With this said, remember that information on Zodiac compatibility is not a guide to your destiny, but a tool for self-understanding. Learning who you are and how you relate to others will give you a better chance at finding the right person. Let’s begin with the four Elements of Zodiac.

The Fire Element ( Zodiac Signs: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius )
This sign are usually fills with passionate energy and in a time can be quite dynamic and unpredictable. They can either keep you cosy or create huge destruction. While fire signs can burn out quick without energy to keep it going, it can also start back up from the very ashes that it has broken into. A single spark can set off a blaze of wild fire, so fire signs need to be nurtured and handled with care.

The Earth Element ( Zodiac Signs: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn )
Earth signs always have their feet on the ground, anchored by a strong solid foundation. Slow but steady, Earth signs are loyal and stable, sticking by their friends and loved ones through tough times. They are practical by nature and have good situational evaluating skills because of their level-headedness and logical thinking. But sometimes they can be too materialistic or too focused on the surface of things to see the layers beneath.

The Air Element ( Zodiac Signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius )
Air signs are all about ideas and putting things into motion. Just like the wind, they are always changing. While some are real air-heads, you will also find others who are powerful like a whirling tornado. Air signs bring a breath of fresh air when things start getting old. Like an invisible breeze, they can't be contained and you never know where they will take you when they sweep you off your feet. An encounter with an air sign is always an adventure.

The Water Element (Zodiac Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces )
The most emotionally sensitive of all the four elements, water signs are also intuitive, with borderline psychic intuition. They are mysterious by nature, with something always lurking underneath the surface. Water signs can rejuvenate you, or they can drown you in their murky depths. Security is of utmost importance to them. After all, water needs to be held with a container, or it will dry right up and vanish.

So which zodiac signs or group are compatible with my Zodiac Sign?
Fire and Air signs tend to be more compatible with each other. Earth signs and Water signs usually get along better together than other signs. Fire and Air are more likely to be extroverted, dynamic and independent. Earth and Air are more likely to be introverted, driven by emotions and involved with steadier relationships. Things get even more specific when each sign is individually matched up with another one. This creates many types of combos with their own positives and negatives.

The Game of Love (Part 1)

As a grown up, everyone has fall in love at certain point of our life. Some of us might not aware that its love because of the many sensations involve in this thing call love. Some says it’s confusing while some just get along with it. It is what we feel, what we go through and those romantic films and love songs just make it better for us to relate to it. Haven’t you listened to a song, enjoy the rhythmic melody of it and once you captured the lyrics, it just spark! “Hey! This is exactly what I feel right now. This song is so right for me” or you might sadly say “Oh! How could I miss it! If only I pay more attention to him/her, I would have been happier now.” Whatever we feel about love, whether it is sweet or it hurts, that’s the experience we will found in life.

I know how devastated it is when we talk about getting hurts in love. Those betrayals, anger, cries and tortured within but this time, let’s leave the sad part. I don’t want to talk about it. Let us all fall in love or fall in love over again with that special someone. If your love has become just another daily routine, let spark it as how it used to be. Aren’t you envy of some septuagenarian or octogenarian who are still holding hands, smiles with love and stroke each other face? I will choose this type of endurance love for myself.

In the game of love, it is excessively wide for us to explore. It could be anything and everything. Most of us mistook this as the early process of courting or trying to get the attention from someone we really like. Then there’s another thing that we call crush. What is crush?? Simply explain as someone who you desire to be with. Someone you have a feeling for and someone who can make your heart skip a beat. Need not to lie, I used to have a crush too or crushes! (Shhh…. As there are more than one. Hahaha…) and you who read now, how many crush do you ever have?

We"ll continue....